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Dr. Ayman Al-Hajjar, a researcher at the Council of Senior Scholars at Al-Azhar Al-Sharif, said that if every husband and wife wants to live happily with each other and enjoy their lives, they must follow the Sunnah of our master, the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, and his behavior with his wives in the house of prophecy.
And the researcher at the Council of Senior Scholars in Al-Azhar Al-Sharif continued, during the episode of the “Al-Bayt” program, broadcast on “Al-Nas” TV: Look at this situation of jealousy between wives, which is considered an instinct. Aisha, so she got up and hit the hand of the boy out of her jealousy, so the pot fell and broke and the dates were scattered on the ground. Look at our master, the Prophet, or what need did he do? Collect the broken pot from the ground and food without hurting the vacancy of Mrs. Aisha.
And he continued: “Look at our master, the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he said to the boy, your mother was jealous, and it was a clear message that the response to women’s jealousy is not with cruelty, anger, and wounding of feeling, which made the mother of the believers, Aisha, ask how to ask forgiveness, so he told her a pot with a pot and food with food so that it does not happen It has a psychological impact, and this teaches us that you must understand the nature of your wife and children, without equalizing. We must deal with negligence, because the life of marriage is based on friendliness and mercy. You must know how to deal with each one without hurting his feelings, and the matter is acceptable to the neighbors, family and colleagues in the worker.
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In another video, the researcher at the Council of Senior Scholars at Al-Azhar Al-Sharif talked about taking into account the feelings of others, saying that taking into account the feelings of others is a great value and must be a prevailing culture in society, because a person is by nature his life in times of ease and times of hardship, and life is volatile and needs qualities that suit circumstances, including Considering the feelings of others.
Al-Hajjar continued: There is violence between people and their dealings because we lack the value of taking into account the feelings of others. Sometimes a person may face great pressures that may lead him to explode and he is unable to curb his anger, and from here disputes exacerbate, especially between spouses, as homes are destroyed and children pay the price.
And he continued: “Islam taught us to take into account the feelings of others in all dealings with the husband, wife, neighbor, and even animals. We must deal with taste in order to preserve human interaction between us. I take into account the feelings of others, so that I will not be an outcast in society, and I try to deal with my dignity by reading the noble biographies of the Companions and the good biographies in society.
